Let the Adoption Journey Begin!

AdoptionWriting these words is simultaneously exciting and scary. Exciting because this means we are starting the process to grow our family of three to four. Scary because the road that lies ahead will undoubtedly present its fair share of challenges and character-testing.

Why adopt? The short answer is that God put the tug in our hearts years ago and has presented circumstances along the way to reinforce that feeling. Knowing there is a child out there (possibly in utero as we speak) that is meant to be part of our family is indescribably awesome. Although I won’t be carrying this child in womb, it already has a place in my heart and prayer life.

Why now? The adoption process can be agonizingly slow. Case in point, my niece’s adoption from Uganda took three years. Starting the process around Lo’s first birthday seemed like a good milestone so that she and her future sibling can be close in age.

International or domestic? The gist of it is that there is need everywhere, including right here in America. A life is a life no matter where it comes from. The obstacles, risks, and stipulations vary by country but the truth of it is, it’s going to be complicated wherever route we go. Right now we feel a greater pull toward international adoption, but until we find the right agency to work with, we aren’t ruling any option out.

What about expenses? The average number I’ve found by talking to adoptive parents and researching on my own ranges from $30,000-$45,000 (regardless of whether you go international or domestic). Of course the result will be worth it, but let’s face it, that’s a tough pill to swallow no matter how you dice it. In addition to our savings plan, we will be doing creative fundraisers along the way. (If you have any fun ideas be sure to send them my way!)

What can you do to help? First and foremost, we’d love your prayers. Additionally, if you or anyone you know has gone through the adoption process we’d love insight on the experience, recommendations for an agency, and any other info you feel would be helpful.

Thanks for all of your support as we begin this journey. We look forward to the day when we can introduce you all to the newest member of the Stordahl family!


Clever Baby Gifts You Won’t Find on the Registry

Mother-Daughter 12th Woman head wraps from Harts & Pearls !

Mother-Daughter 12th Woman head wraps from Harts & Pearls !

Registries are great for the essentials, but sometimes it’s fun to get something a little outside the box.

After months of road-testing, here are my favorite innovative, adorable, unique, and nifty gifts guaranteed to make baby AND mama happy!


MAM Glow-in-the-Dark Night Pacifiers

These little buggers are life-savers for binky-aholics. They glow in the dark so baby or mama can find them in the middle of the night. A new mom wouldn’t even know to think about this, but once she uses them, she’ll be thanking you from head to toe for the genius gift!Mam Glow in the Dark Pacifier


Bebe Bottle Sling

The bottle sling is the perfect gift for the busy mom on-the-go. This brilliant contraption allows infants to self-feed when parents needs to tend to other things (like countless loads of laundry). Jason and I found it especially handy to keep Lo content when we went out to eat.Bebe Bottle Sling


Harts & Pearls Accessories

If you follow me on Instagram or Pinterest, you’ve probably noticed my obsession with locally-owned Harts & Pearls. From scarves to head wraps, H&P has mama and baby covered with fashion forward accessories. The matching mother/daughter headbands make for ridiculously cute gift sets, or score brownie points with any mama by getting her a custom-made nursing scarf in one of H&P’s trendy prints. Below is just a small sampling of what you can find at H&P.



Amazon Prime/Amazon Mom Subscription

Attempting to get out of the house with a finicky newborn is exhausting. With Amazon Prime you can order anything you could possibly need and get it quickly (within two days) with zero shipping costs. The subscription comes with additional perks like 20% off baby necessities via the Amazon Mom program (click here for a free 30-day trial) and includes video streaming for on-demand movies. You can order Prime as a gift with a one-time charge of $99 for the year.Amazon Prime Gift Subscription


The Emojis of Motherhood

Going to the grocery store by yourself.

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When baby sleeps through the night.

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Mom jeans.

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Bane of existence.



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A bad idea.

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How to get through the day.

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Finding poop on baby’s forehead.

Poo emojiWhat lingerie now looks like.

sweatpant emojiHow you’d like to spend a day off.

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What you do instead.


The thing that makes it all worth it.

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The Inadvertent Cry It Out Method

Lo with her beautiful Grammy!

Lo with her beautiful Grammy!

If you asked me how I was doing over the last several months, there’s a good chance my answer was something along the lines of “The lack of sleep is killing me!”

Lo was never a good sleeper (not even in the womb, hence the midnight kick-fests), and there were times when I wondered if I’d ever get more than two hours of sleep at a time.

When other moms would tell me how their little one was already sleeping through the night I wanted to punch them in the face- not really, but I did want to curl up in a ball and have a good cry.

Around the four-month marker (when babies can allegedly begin to self soothe), I tried the cry it out (CIO) method. I followed all the rules in the book, but Lo outlasted me every time. Partially because we live in a 1,100 square foot condo, and there was nowhere to escape the sound of crying. And partially because 60 minutes of straight crying was simply unbearable.

We attempted CIO a few more times but could never surpass the three day sweet spot that all books talk about (apparently after three-to-five days your baby gets the memo and magically sleeps through the night).

It wasn’t until a hot spell hit that we were finally able to succeed at CIO. The key to success? A fan in our room that blocked out the sound of Lo’s pouts next door. It wasn’t even on purpose. One night I decided to turn off the volume on the baby monitor assuming I would hear Lo through our bedroom wall like I always did, but instead the fan blurred out the sound just enough to allow me to sleep through the night.

I woke up in a near panic and had to rush in to make sure Lo was still alive. Indeed she was, waking up as happy as ever (maybe even happier).  That sweet little smile gave me all the assurance I needed to know that letting her cry wasn’t doing any harm.

That’s not to say that CIO will work for everyone. I’ve heard horror stories of infants who would get so worked up that they vomit or bang their head on the crib railing. And there are plenty of mothers who simply aren’t comfortable with the concept. I can totally respect that.

It’s really a matter of letting your motherly instincts guide you to the best decision for your family. In my case, the lack of sleep was sucking the life out of me to the point where I felt like it was shortchanging my husband and my baby so I did what it took to change the path I was on.

If this blog can encourage, validate, or empathize with even just one mama out there going through something similar, it has served its purpose. Weigh in with your thoughts in the comments section!

Summer Hair Makeover Part 3: The Mom Cut

After months of Lo spitting up in my hair and pulling strands out with her vise-grip, I was OVER it. Time for the #MomCut.

Kate Gosselin Mom Hair

Kidding, I would never do that.  My inspiration? Chelsea Kane’s adorable do.

Chelsea Kane Haircut

I’ve got a thick mane so short haircuts are always a little scary. It’s has to be just the right balance of volume and layers, otherwise…

My epic mushroom hair... surrounded by family's stellar hairstyles.

My epic mushroom hair… surrounded by some other stellar hairstyles.

My hair pro, Delanah at Air Salon, to the rescue!

This new cut is so much easier to manage. Blow dry and go. Perfect for my busy lifestyle, and out of baby’s reach.

Summer Hair Makeover

mom hairI’ve had my fair share of haircut and color experiments over the years (that’s what happens when you grow up with an aspiring hairstylist), but for the last few I’ve played it pretty safe. After realizing I was starting to have “mommy” hair, I decided it was time to get back in the saddle and change up my tresses in a major way.

Stage One: Goldie Locks

I naturally have dark, dishwater-blonde hair, but after spending a few hours with Delanah at Air Salon, we achieved this Goldie Locks hue! I love how this color warmed up my skin tone and brought out my blue eyes. It was definitely a fun look, but I have to admit there were times when the platinum-ness felt a little too Playboy for me. Better to be a #MILF than #MomJeans though, right? 🙂goldie locks

Pro tip: If you’re going to take the plunge, do yourself a favor and invest in a purple shampoo like this one from Paul Mitchell to help tone down any brassiness.

Stage Two: Blush Blonde

I came to Delanah with hair ideas from my Pinterest board, and being the loving sister she is, she took one for the team and played with some wild colors on herself before experimenting on my mane.

My favorite is the radiant orchid shade she’s sporting here. 10362759_10204130464249674_6438988855068009762_o

For my hair, we decided on a blush blonde ombre, or as I like to call it “blonde-bre”. To achieve the look Delanah used a semi-permanent pink toner and applied it in subtle waves so that the line wouldn’t be too blunt.photo 5

It’s only been a day, but I’m in love!  The color is understated yet noticeable at the same time, and gives off a beachy, summery vibe. The hubby is also a fan (you’re welcome honey).BlushBlonde

Stage Three:  ?

I’m keeping the final stage of my summer hair makeover a secret until it’s a go, but it may just be the most dramatic change yet! Stay tuned…

What’s Up at Five Months?

Baby Lo and MamaA lot has happened since I blogged about The Three-Month Turning Point. Lo’s first two teeth came in, her sleep got better… and then worse, and she found her voice (lots of happy screams and adorable babble).

The biggest change has been bringing formula into the picture. After calculating the number of hours I was spending on pumping breast milk, cleaning the supplies, heating bottles and physically feeding Lo, I realized it was a third of my day. I was starting to feel like a slave to the pump. (Check out this blog if you’re curious as to why I pumped instead of feeding on the breast).

Slowly but surely, I started subbing in formula, realizing that it would alleviate some of the exhaustion I was feeling and allow more flexibility when we were out and about (no racing back home to keep on a pumping schedule). I also secretly hoped it would help Lo sleep better because I had heard such tales (it didn’t). And let’s be honest, I was also excited to no longer have gale force suction tugging on my boobs several times a day.

Not all babies transition well to formula, but my little piggy chowed down like a champ on the first try. If it had been a struggle I probably wouldn’t have been so keen on feeding Lo formula, but she was as happy and healthy as ever.

There is a certain stigma from those who believe you should breastfeed exclusively, but I never really fell prey to that pressure. If you can breastfeed and enjoy it, then by all means keep it up, but if using formula makes you a happier mama for your baby, than that’s as valuable as any benefit that breast milk may have.

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Mommy Makeover + Beauty Faves

Mommy MakeoverThis weekend our Mommy Makeover winner, Kirsten, was pampered at Air Salon, including hair by the talented Delanah Reudink and makeup by your’s truly. Kirsten was already a gorgeous canvas to work with; all we really did was enhance her natural beauty.

For Kirsten’s complexion I started out with Paula’s Choice Resist Daily Moisturizer SPF 25 under her eye area and along the tips of her cheekbones. RESIST CELLULAR DEFENSE SPF 25This daytime moisturizer has a brightening and lightening effect that works perfectly to enliven skin and wears beautifully under foundation/concealer. The luminous finish adds a youthful, radiant glow to highlight cheekbones and the moisturizing factor helps soften the appearance of fine lines and crow’s feet. It’s an anti-aging powerhouse formula so you’ll also reap long-term benefits, particularly repair and protection from sun damage.

Nude Matte EyeshadowNext, I played up Kirsten’s eyes with The Nude Mattes Eyeshadow Palette from Paula’s Choice. The neutral and brown tones work beautifully together to bring out her striking blue eyes, and I used one of the taupe shades to fill in her brows. Before this palette came along I was a loyal fan of Urban Decay’s Naked palettes, but this one has more matte finish options, which work particularly well if you have crinkly eyelids because it camouflages wrinkles (as opposed to shiny metallic and shimmer finishes which only enhance them). Bonus: it’s $14 less!

Physicians Formula EyelinerFor eyeliner, I applied Physicians Formula Eye Booster 2-in-1 Lash Boosting Eyeliner + Serum (my all-time favorite) in the shade Black to create the optical of illusion of an amplified lash line volume and extended a subtle wing on the outer edges for a lifting effect.Clinique High Impact Mascara To round out the look, I added a coat of Clinique’s High Impact Mascara to create thick, lush lashes.

By the way, if you’re wondering why I started with the eyes, it’s because typically a bit of eyeshadow drips down during the application process which ends up creating a mess on top of your foundation. By applying eyeshadow first, you avoid this problem, and it’s also a good idea to base the rest of your makeup application around the intensity of  your shadow. If you do a heavy eye, go subtle on the lips and vice versa.

Best Face Forward FoundationNext, up foundation. Kirsten has great skin to begin with, but she had a few problem areas that concerned her. She normally wears a BB cream with ultra-sheer coverage so she wanted to try something that would do more to conceal her trouble spots. We used Paula’s Choice Best Face Forward Foundation SPF 25 for medium coverage and enhanced the look Paula’s Choice Sunkissed Bronzer. Sunkissed Custom BronzerI love that this matte bronzer comes with two shades: one for a believeable, sunkissed tan color and the other, a darker shade that works great for contouring.

shimmer-waves_BodyShopTo add a pop of color and radiant glow to Kirsten’s cheeks, I applied The Body Shop’s Shimmer Waves in the shade 02 Blush. It’s a beautifully luminous blush, which helps add youthfulness by drawing attention to cheekbones. FYI- This is a dupe for Bobbi Brown’s Shimmer Brick in the shade Rose, and it’s $20 cheaper!

Mally Beauty Pro Lip PaletteFor Kirsten’s lips, we created a custom color using the Mally Beauty Pro-Tricks Lip Palette. I love this kit because it comes with several shades that you can mix and match for all skin tones and occasions. We experimented with different hues before ending on a gorgeous berry shade to complement her blue eyes, and blonde hair.

Love the look? For more beauty faves, check out my Best and Worst New Beauty Launches post and stay tuned for more makeup and skincare dupes to come!

Daddyhood in the Workplace

This morning I watched a segment on the work-life balance that fathers face in today’s job market. Being married to someone in the construction management industry, I know the challenges firsthand. My husband has to juggle fatherhood along with long hours, stressful deadlines, and a constant feeling of needing to do more. There are days when he leaves the house at 5:30am and doesn’t get home until 10pm.

I feel awful when Jason doesn’t get to see Lo before she goes to bed. As hard as it is for him to miss out on the little things now, I imagine it will only get more difficult as she grows up, and he has to miss sports games, recitals, and funny everyday moments.

It’s also tough on me as a mom to get no relief throughout the day. I too struggle with finding the balance between working from home, getting things done around the house, and making sure my little one is being stimulated enough throughout the day. And let’s be honest… sometimes I just want a break.

Unfortunately, the value of parenting has been slighted by workaholic standards in today’s economy. While this isn’t true for everyone, it is true for too many of us.

Luckily, I have a husband who acknowledges this and is trying his best to rectify the situation in whatever ways he can. Every Saturday he gets one-on-one time with Lo while I work on my freelance projects, and every so often he’ll take a vacation day just so we can have more time together as a family.

It’s not that I think that parents should receive special treatment in the workplace. I just wish in general that corporations respected the work-life balance of their employees. If someone chooses to be married to their job because that’s what makes them happy that’s one thing, but it shouldn’t be the expectation for the rest of us.

End rant. Now watch the clip above and let me know what you think.

Parenting Fail or Genius?

laundry basket baby

While celebrating a dear friend’s birthday this past weekend we committed what some may consider a parenting fail… or a genius MacGyver maneuver. We turned a laundry basket into a crib for Lo and tucked her away in an empty room to sleep while we socialized.

White trash? Yeah a little. But also kind of brilliant, right?

In an effort to make my parenting skills seem not so bad, here are some truly epic parenting fails.

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